February 5th, 2012 Q&A: Boyfriend has problems in performance? Help?
Question by Carlisle: Boyfriend has problems in performance? Help?
I’ve been seeing this guy for about two months and we have recently begun a sexual relationship. The first few times we had intercourse, he never had an orgasm… but I tried to believe it was just because we were in a slight hurry, then he had been drinking, etc. But it seems to keep happening and the last time he actually lost his erection in the middle of sex. I have never been with someone who has had a problem like this. Although I am confident that it is not a problem with physical attraction, I’m still starting to feel insecure. I realize there are things that can cause this like alcohol, stress, etc but I think it is something more. He is only 29 years old. He explained that “sometimes he just builds it up too much in his head and then gets nervous”. I’m trying to understand and not make him feel worse but I am concerned. It’s affecting our relationship. I also saw a prescription for medicine to prevent hair loss on his counter. Could this medication be the problem?
Please only serious answers. I can assure you I am not fat or ugly.
Best answer:
Answer by quikv8
he might be seeing somebody else and he has no interest in you.
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