February 5th, 2012 Does Boyfriend have ED Erectile Dysfunction???
Question by lambchop: Does Boyfriend have ED Erectile Dysfunction???
I have been with my current boyfriend (he is 38) for 5 months now and I first noticed this problem in the beginning of our relationship. It seems he has a hard time keeping it hard during sex. It seems that when I give him oral (often making him cum), he is able to stay erect but as soon as we get ready for intercourse, he gets soft and has trouble putting it in. Could something be wrong with my vagina? Is it the way I look? When he does get in, he has a hard time keeping it hard (he does ejaculate). It is definitely a problem because it limits our sexual relationship. We can only do it it two positions and the only way I can orgasm is when he gives me oral. It has been the best oral ever though!!! I have brought this up to him and he claims it is only stress but I think otherwise. I told him to get it check out and he just got all upset. I would like to have a fullfilling sexual relationship with him without being limited due to him not being able to keep his erection.
Best answer:
Answer by paintmeblue719
It could be stress, it could be a medical problem (blood pressure, that sort of thing). Be gentle with him- its possible that he was abused as a child, or had a bad former relationship that he associates with sex. If you love it as much as you say you do, i sincerely doubt that the problem is you. Just don’t criticize him for it- that will only make the problem worse when he gets performance anxiety.
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